MY DEFINITION OF LOVE: what about you?

WHAT IS YOUR DEFINITION OF LOVE?

“Love is created between two individuals, just as no two individuals are the same, neither can the love between them be the same, however love is still love” – Dark Secrets

Love is that which we believe is worth fighting for. How much are we willing to fight for it? How much are we willing to suffer for it and give up for it? . How true is it?. The only love worth having is the one worth fighting for. If you aren’t willing to fight for it then you clearly don’t want it enough to have it.

The question is do you love this person enough to step out of your comfort zone and into the ring to fight for him or her? One reason a love worth fighting for is the only love worth having is the only sort of relationship that will keep our attention for long.

It’s a glorious battle but it is one fight over a lifetime. And as far as wars go, a lifetime is a long time. In life, it is only the things we believe worth fighting for that are important to us. Someone who is willing to fight for you, to protect you, to even fight your battles if need be, is the exact reason why human beings partnered up to begin with. Not with fist but the fight for us with decisions they make, the way they plan our lives, the way they forgive and do all they can to keep the relationship together.

Anything else feels like abandonment. Jumping ship when the waters get tough causes the entire relationship to drown. No one deserves to be abandoned, especially not at a time of need. If you aren’t willing to fight for the love the two of you share, then she deserves better, he deserves better. YOU DESERVE BETTER

Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
(Cert. Public Speaker)