should I give love a try?
What is love? we have always heard of the clichè that says love is a strong feeling towards someone or something. But could love really just be a feeling?, or could it be something more than that?. According to the bible:‘love is kind, love is gentle, love doesn't judge, love doesn't care about your physical appearance, LOVE IS GENUINE'.But does that apply to today's dating world?. Do you know that 1in3 teens has been in an unhealthy and unrealistic relationship?, that is just the actual fact because, teenagers don't know what relationship is all about,they mistake infactuation for actual love which is wrong. So this article would give you insights on what true love is all about, how you could avoid making unnecessary mistakes during relationships,and also how you could have the best love story you could think of as a teen😉
Healthy vs Unhealthy relationships:
As a teenager I understand that the hormones responsible for falling inlove is really active in this stage.And that is what is responsible for rushing into relationships without double-thinking.Though as a teenager dating shouldn't be prioritized by you at this stage but you could also achieve healthy and exquisite relationships.An healthy relationship is one in which is built on a solid foundation of growth and trust,and not lust or sexual desires.i could agree with you that physical appearance is one of the first things we notice when we see a person of the opposite sex.Its normal and nothing to be shy about. But it's becomes something unpleasant when the love you have for that person is based off of only their appearance and this is what we term infactuation.To achieve a healthy relationship as a teenager you have to look beyond the physical.Attraction could also be derives from a person's inner qualities: similar interests, similar goals,intellect, charisma and so much more.Dating someone who is ready to surpport your goals, who encouraging you to keep pushing forward, someone whose happiness is seeing you succeed, someone who makes time for you at any given chance would surely lead to a relationship that you have always dreamed of🤭.
But on the other hand,dating someone just for how he/she looks, or just for your material gain or benefit would definitely crash. And that is the mistake most teenagers make nowadays, a relationship that isn't goal driven can't and would never work, is either there would always be argument, cheating, heartbreak and all sort.This is what I tearm ‘UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP '.If the relationship isn't going to lead to marriage why then are u partaking in it ?,For sexual lust,just to not feel left out,ask yourself that question:what am I gaining or what have I gained mentally, morally, phycologically, from this relationship I'm in?.
Effectiveness of communication in relationships:
Communication is the bedrock of any healthy relationship.With communication comes understanding.Active communication between two partners could lead to a very solid foundation for a relationship, when u get to pour out your feelings and ideas to each other without feeling nervous or scared. Communication also helps to build trust and intimacy which are very essential in keeping a healthy relationship. Effective communication could reduce the chances of regular arguement and misunderstanding between two partners.True sacrifice:
When I mean sacrifice I'm not talking about human sacrifice lol 😆,I mean doing all it takes to keep a relationship.Sacrifice involves putting your partners needs before yours and making sure you find a way to satisfy them, this act would show how far you can go to see your partner happy and how much you love him/her. Sacrifice could also involve time:when I mean sacrificing your time for your partner I mean being there when they need you, creating time for your partner, always being present with them when they need you the most no matter what!, this would build a stronger and tighter bond and closeness between you and your partner. Lastly forgiving your partner and understanding him /her.In conclusion, true love exist no matter your age,it's just all about finding the right partner or being the right partner yourself.As teenagers you can achieve the relationship you always wanted if you are genuine with yourself that you actually love the person who you are dating, Never be pressured to date!, As a teenager if you aren't In a relationship it isn't the end of the world my dear , there are still lot of fun things to try out there.😉