A LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY & A MOMENT OF REGRET

Don't ever hurt someone you love so much in this world, if you don't want to loose him/her. When you hurt such person it causes heartbreak but after sometime they will mend their heart again and move on with the experience that they gained from what you led them into. And when that person is gone that is when you will realize how precious they were to your life and what they meant to you. You will cry and plead for forgiveness from that person but it will be meaningless at that time.

Meaning if you are lucky enough that God blessed you with someone who cares about you and loves you the way you are, value his or her love. Don't bring pain to such person because it will make them change and you will regret in the end. And if you caused pain to them but still have a chance of making things right, don't relax.

If it needs apologizing do it before that person completely let go of you. You might be with pride that you never say sorry or bend low but trust me in the long run when such person is gone you will miss them and wish to get back in life. You will console yourself and move on but might end up rebounding in every relationship. You might fail to find someone with that kind of love and heart like for that person you gave pain and failed to apologize to them.

You will pretend to be fine but you will always be with a vacuum in your heart. In the end you will say that “there's no true love, all men and women are the same”. You will end up being a loner for the first time in your life or being a bad guy/lady who only get into relationship to hurt others. So don't create pain to someone who loves you. Love them, care about them and be proud of them.

Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
(Cert. Public Speaker)