KNOW YOUR WORTH : Enough to walk away

KNOW YOUR WORTH ENOUGH TO WALK AWAY – Dark Secrets

I keep telling people as if my life depends on it that, why date toxic people? Why do you enjoy toxicity?

You have to let go because when you hold on, when you keep something alive inside of you, you’re allowing your past to take up the space in your heart and in your mind that is meant for your future. You have to let go because at the end of the day, if you are going to find the right person who is going to help you experience the kind of love you have always deserved, you will have to make sure you’re ready for it because your past has blinded you.

You’re afraid to speak up because there is a possibility that you speaking up will aggrevate the tension of things in your room and that might serve you breakfast. Yes! Love is blind but there are somethings you should see clearly, red flag you should see but you act unconcerned because you are scared of a breakup. You end up acting like a victim whereas you are a FOOL.

Not for anyone else, not to prove to anyone that you can, but rather, do it for yourself, do it for your future and let go of what is heavy within you, move forward with the lessons, carry them inside of yourself, move on but not because you have something to prove to the outside world but because you have something to prove to your heart, you have something to prove to your soul, YOU ARE WORTH SAVING, save yourself.

Your partner is just an IDIOT who doesn’t even know the worth of true love or how to treat you well and you also keep acting like a FOOL just to keep the relationship.

It fine if you don’t want to give up, but you will be left with no choice and you will be pushed away, clinging to the good memories, hoping for change, but it will become clear that it wasn’t needed but you have to pick up the pieces and move on, forget what you once had. It hurts, but the journey should be about your healing and rediscovering yourself after everything you lost.

It is good to cry, stay awake, hoping for some kind of explanation, feeling the weight you carried in your chest, but you have to stop because it won’t change anything. Letting go is part of loving someone, it is painful to accept that sometimes love means stepping back instead of holding on, love isn’t about staying close, fighting for the relationship no matter the odds but as time passed, you will realize that love isn’t about proximity, it’s about what’s best for both of you.

Speak up, don’t be a prisoner of silence. Don’t die over someone who isn’t worth it. Don’t dare drop a tear over someone who isn’t worth your tears. Don’t be a FOOL to an IDIOT who you have to teach how to love you.

Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
Certified Public Speaker (CPS)