SILENCE NOT NAIVETY

DON’T MISTAKE SILENCE FOR NAIVETY- Dark Secrets

People notice when they are treated differently, when others tell lies thinking they would be too dumb to realize, when they’re not part of the plan, when some people act weird towards them, when they’re just an option, when they’re being used for someone else’s gain, when kindness has another meaning, when people conneive.

They notice everything.
So don’t mistake their silence for naivety.
They’re too keen for that.

Some people don’t push you to grow, they push you to break, to bend until there’s nothing left. There’s a fine line between being pushed toward something better and being dragged into something worse.

The ones who challenge you will make you feel alive, energized, ready for what’s next. The ones who drain you? They’ll leave you questioning everything, including yourself.

Everyday you need to remind myself that you don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You don’t have to justify or explain your choices. Focus on healing, growing and simply trying to survive.

Anyone who judges or criticizes your journey has no place in your life. After spending so long seeking approval from others, come to realization that what truly matters is being proud of yourself. Do not look for validation from anyone. Your worth is defined by your own efforts and experiences, embrace that fully.

You’re just the person who always tries to be there for others; knowing that you have one hell of a beautiful heart. You’re a kind soul and have the ability to calm down the chaos in people’s minds.

Knowing that it’s because of people like you that people still believe that goodness exists.

You make people feel wanted, you acknowledge their pain, which goes unnoticed by others. You make people feel loved and seen, inspiring them to be a better version of themselves.

However, you also need to remember that you need to be kind to myself too. You need to rest. You too need love and care, which you’ve always been showering upon others. And it’s okay to prioritize your well-being over others; it’s not selfishness

Get to the point where, people’s fakeness becomes numb to you. Like you’re officially not letting it get to you anymore, like do you and I’m going to do me line.

Don’t match your energy anymore, just leave them alone. Don’t fake kick it with them to make them see you different. They feel how they feel and you can’t change that.

Know when to walk away from the people who take more than they give – Dark Secrets

DON’T MISTAKE SILENCE FOR NAIVETY