THE MYSTERY OF FORCING LOVE
THE MYSTERY OF FORCING LOVE
It is a dead end thing to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage or relationship, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth.
A man who does not love a woman during courtship will find it difficult to cherish her after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you extend love to them. That’s the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don’t force yourself on anyone.
Don’t keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option. It is WRONG
Trust me, it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because there are thousands of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you.
Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you. It is not WORTH it.
You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love.
You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can’t see the right person for your life.
Sometimes we may love the wrong person, cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is for sure, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people’s life and act accordingly. It’s not pride, it is self respect.
“Make a choice that can stand the test of time” – Dark Secrets
Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
(Certified Public Speaker)