GOD WHEN? The mystery & moving on

“Learn to understand the mystery behind statement you utter at times” -Dark Secrets-

Many people believe that the way they see marriages is exactly the way it is. Most of us are engrossed with lies than believing the truth that is staring right at us. Instead we go with the cliche “GOD WHEN“.

Those colorful marriages you see even on social media aren't the clear picture of what couples are passing true. Yes! No marriage is perfect. You chose to walk into it ignoring the red flags, love is blind but there are many things you should see even when you are in love.

Many people believe that staying silent simply means that one is weak of dealing with issues. Creating a negative picture against someone who is not struggling to defend their selves. It doesn't mean they are weak. Some of us are just logical enough to understand the difference between values, beliefs, opinions and facts.

The personality and ability that you possess simply confirm that you have reached that stage in your life where you should not be entertaining the public with deep personal issues.

Especially in a situation involved to understand how to appropriate the blames in a space that is designed for both parties to always play the victims and win. I can tell you for free that no one is completely INNOCENT enough to cast stones.

To everyone whomever had such dilemma of GOD WHEN that has led you to making eternal mistakes, you don't need revenge and don't react needlessly, just move on, cause?

It simply not worth it.

Hard? Sure it hard as hell, but it is for the best. You should love yourself better to swallow bitter drugs to heal and be stronger. Like COVID-19 vaccine, slowly put distance and live happily without getting tangled in such situation again.

You can do it in discreet or smoothly, who knows what kind of see finish you're dealing with?

Anyway, you can still find a good partner. Believe me, the world is wide enough and many things can be achieved which includes many form of love that doesn't require you to destroy yourself to crumbs.

It is better to be single than getting burden to take care for the rest of your life and suffer for a moment of glee.

So yep just leave and wipe it like it never happened and live life to the fullest. Never “if” it again, never look back

Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
Cert. Public Speaker