LOVE IS BLIND- e get somethings wey you suppose dey see

Many are not prepared enough to venture into marriage because of their shallow knowledge of marriage. Many people prepared a lot to have their dream wedding more than life after marriage. They are too hasty and not ready to to learn about the principles guiding marital life. Many ladies are not qualified to be a WIFE likewise many guys are not qualified to be a HUSBAND.

WOMEN faces abuse
MEN faces abuse
A man that beats his wife, turning her to a punching bag is an animal that is unfit to live among human.

A woman that isn't submissive, lacks respect and insult the husband at every opportunity is not worthy to be called a virtuous woman.

Endurance zero, Respect zero, Perseverance zero, Patience zero. When things go berserk it becomes INCOMPATIBILITY. And our so called young ladies and guys especially the ladies are very well known for walking out of their marriages. As we all know, many young marriages are not fulfilled. Nevertheless, you have to take the bull by the horns.

Ladies, guys, when you both were courting, you ought to have noticed all the RED FLAGS. Yes! Love is blind but e get somethings wey you suppose dey see.

You should have noticed every damn little things as red flags but you were blinded by love. You were too much impatient to get into marriage with him or her. Or you noticed them but you thought it would go away once you get married. What then did you both define courtship as? You must have seen many things but you just didn't open your eyes to it now you have entered a journey of no return and your eyes are opened (Marriage).

Yet you never took any steps when you haven't gotten married. You didn't correct each other. YET YOU STILL DIDN'T SEE THE RED FLAG.

I believe now you have seen the end result. Since you remained in the relationship to the extent of marriage, it means you're totally convinced that he or she is God's will for you.

Now you're married and you're seeing everything in full colors. Some people who doesn't even have a happy home or life are now teaching you how to do things that you could have avoid earlier than now.

You made the mistake and you need to correct it. Be patient. Don't learn to endure in marriage when you should have corrected the mistakes from the onset (read again). Instead, don't rush into a marriage because people are saying “Say yes say yes” by those whose life doesn't have a clear and precise direction. Those that are after posting you on social medias.

These same people will be the one to criticize you when you have issues in the marriage. They will be the first person to push you out of your home and take over.

DON'T LET ANYONE WHO DIDN'T DIE FOR YOU TELL YOU HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE . Also, learn to know the difference between a MAN OR WOMAN WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU FOR BETTER FOR WORST OR THE ONE WHO JUST WANT TO SATISFY PEOPLE .

LOVE IS BLIND, BUT E GET SOMETHINGS WEY YOU SUPPOSE DEY SEE

Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
(Cert. Public Speaker)