MARRIAGE IS NOT A GAME TO GAMBLE
Many people think that everyone is a marriage material. “A wrong partner can make you or mar you”. – Dark Secrets
As much as all that glitters is not gold, all that's fade is not advisable to be purchased, a faded item does more harm than good.
Don't ever let it cross your mind that people will suddenly get better after marriage, the way people are before marriage is the way they will be after marriage, nothing changes overnight. Do not take that risk, it is not worth it.
If a guy tells you he will stop partying or living a gangster life after marriage, don't accept his proposal, until you see the changes in him. If a lady tells you she will quit prostitution after marriage, don't accept such risk, even at that it is only pretence for a shortwhile.
There is no management in marriage, do not marry anyone out of pity or out of mere hopes that they would change. Never!
This is why we see some committed women married to a wolf called guys today while some men are equally married to negative classical babes today. You don't have the unseen knowledge, it may turn out positive or negative, the risk is not worth taking, marry a man who is better than you not worse than you and for men marry a woman who is ready to abide by all the characteristics of marriage.
When we go to buy fruits, we choose the best, when we buy clothes, we go for the best, when we cook, we prepare it well, when we take drugs, we go for the best, when we marry, we even go for blood test so that we don't endanger the health of our kids, but when it comes to commitment relating to marriage we take things for granted .
We go for blood test but we don't examine the readiness of the life after and before marriage.
Marriage is a lifetime contract and your partner will either mar you or make you, so do not go for anything less, there is no management in marriage. Don't end up with the cliche “Had I know”.
Look for a partner that will stimulate solace and succour in your life not otherwise.
Written by:
Eniitan O. Adeyemi
(Cert. Public Speaker)